~ TAKE THIS RELATIONSHIP TEST ~

Does your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner ever...
- put you down, call you names, criticize you?
- make fun of you in front of friends or family?
- pressure you into doing things you don't want to do?
- get jealous when you're around other people?
- act suspicious or accuse you of cheating?
 - destroy things that are important to you?
- threaten to hurt you or people in your family?
- push you around, slap or hit you?
- make decisions for you?

Do you have to...
- ask for permission, sneak, or lie to spend time with other people?
- make excuses to protect your girlfriend/boyfriend/partner or justify his/her behavior?
- do what he/she wants to avoid an argument or fight?

Do you feel...
- that you can help him/her change for the better?
- afraid to express your own opinions or say no?
- that it's just easier to do things his/her way?
- guilty when you want to spend time with other people?
- that maybe all the terrible things he/she says about you are true?
- confused?
- afraid to tell your friends or family what's really going on?

If this describes you, or someone you know, help is available.   Click here to learn more about NELCWIT's services.  (All of our services are free. Most are available in Spanish as well as English. We are handicap accessible.)

Click here for a description of a healthy relationship
 

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